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Post by Tiggnutz on May 1, 2017 3:15:03 GMT -5
Its May already
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Post by Sebastian Taro Groth on May 1, 2017 4:52:40 GMT -5
Calendids of March.
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Post by Dream on May 1, 2017 5:51:43 GMT -5
I had a fun day yesterday. Get a message from my cousin that basically says, "I don't know what to do anymore, I'm beating my kid and she still won't listen." Talk to cousin a little bit, find out that her 9 year old is intentionally hurting herself to get attention from her mother because mom is preoccupied with the baby she's currently pregnant with. The thought of "Hey, maybe if I spend a little time with my middle daughter and give her just a little one on one attention she might not feel completely forgotten about and might stop acting out." Nope, she went straight to "This kid needs to be medicated so I can handle her, but I thought having a fucking fourth kid was a good idea." SHE'S NINE!
I think I've talked her into taking her daughter to a therapist to do talk therapy for a few months before trying any kind of medication. I just can't fucking figure out why someone would willingly have a fourth kid if they can't handle the three they've got. They've all got different dads and the first dad is in jail, I think the third one might be too, not sure. Being beaten clearly worked out in her favor, so why not try it on her own kids!
Sometimes I think I just need to cut my relatives out of my life, it's fucking toxic. They are just fucking toxic people and I'm finding my patience for it has worn thin.
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Post by Laz on May 1, 2017 18:12:36 GMT -5
I had a fun day yesterday. Get a message from my cousin that basically says, "I don't know what to do anymore, I'm beating my kid and she still won't listen." Talk to cousin a little bit, find out that her 9 year old is intentionally hurting herself to get attention from her mother because mom is preoccupied with the baby she's currently pregnant with. The thought of "Hey, maybe if I spend a little time with my middle daughter and give her just a little one on one attention she might not feel completely forgotten about and might stop acting out." Nope, she went straight to "This kid needs to be medicated so I can handle her, but I thought having a fucking fourth kid was a good idea." SHE'S NINE! I think I've talked her into taking her daughter to a therapist to do talk therapy for a few months before trying any kind of medication. I just can't fucking figure out why someone would willingly have a fourth kid if they can't handle the three they've got. They've all got different dads and the first dad is in jail, I think the third one might be too, not sure. Being beaten clearly worked out in her favor, so why not try it on her own kids! Sometimes I think I just need to cut my relatives out of my life, it's fucking toxic. They are just fucking toxic people and I'm finding my patience for it has worn thin. Your family sounds very similar to mine. Mine are constantly got nothing but drama. And the ones with all of the money and wealth surprisingly have more drama than the rest. After so long it beats you down to the point you begin to question your own sanity. This is why I moved away from them (and planning to move further away in a few years). You have to put your own health first. I know that probably sounds shitty but you can't be everything to everyone. At one point I told some of my relatives that if they wanted me to continue to be their sounding board I was going to charge them $160 an hour, $200 for weekends. lol It work in some ways. haha Family is difficult but blood or not if people are doing more harm than good in your life cut them out.
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Post by DancesWithWerewolves on May 1, 2017 20:13:17 GMT -5
Got tickets for a Thursday night show of Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2. *dances lamely*
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Post by Sebastian Taro Groth on May 2, 2017 10:45:30 GMT -5
Got tickets for a Thursday night show of Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2. *dances lamely* Amazing fun, I thought.
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Post by DancesWithWerewolves on May 2, 2017 14:53:27 GMT -5
Got tickets for a Thursday night show of Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2. *dances lamely* Amazing fun, I thought. I forget, it got an international release already. First showings here are Thursday night. I haven't been to the movies in almost 2 months, I was getting itchy. I feel like I have to mention that timing because Foo thinks that's all we do
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Post by Sebastian Taro Groth on May 2, 2017 18:26:16 GMT -5
I forget, it got an international release already. First showings here are Thursday night. I haven't been to the movies in almost 2 months, I was getting itchy. I feel like I have to mention that timing because Foo thinks that's all we do I keep going out and living life to spite him.
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Post by Foo on May 2, 2017 20:18:33 GMT -5
I forget, it got an international release already. First showings here are Thursday night. I haven't been to the movies in almost 2 months, I was getting itchy. I feel like I have to mention that timing because Foo thinks that's all we do I keep going out and living life to spite him. 170 hours of playing a single video game is pretty gangsta! Don't do anything to spite me. HMF has always been as much about others as me. If people don't mind not having it, I am fine with popping in here.
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Post by Foo on May 2, 2017 20:18:59 GMT -5
Happy birfday Jason!
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Post by Sebastian Taro Groth on May 3, 2017 5:46:59 GMT -5
I keep going out and living life to spite him. 170 hours of playing a single video game is pretty gangsta! Don't do anything to spite me. HMF has always been as much about others as me. If people don't mind not having it, I am fine with popping in here. Love me some Nioh.
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